Sunday, October 23, 2011

Triggers...

...are so unfair...

Unfair to the one who got ambushed...but even more unfair to the unknowing soul who accidently said the thing that reminded you of your mother... or... laughed in that condescending way that aunt so and so used to right before she reminded you that you would never be as smart as cousin whatshername....
..ok so...you dont know what i'm talking about...i'm the only one with triggers...right.

The unfortunate think about these 'triggers' is that they steal, kill, and destroy.  They point to unforgiveness of the past...they remind you of hurts that are surpressed...buried, ignored...but still very much alive.  New relationships, thriving friendships are jeopardized because of wounds that were inflicted long ago....

Right now love...right now companionship and present communication hang in the balance while we wrestle with yesterday.  C'mon Lynette...get over it already.

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